I would like to talk to you after you realize that the universe is infinite and did not have a beginning. That the multiverse is what you are looking at, from the infinitely small to the infinitely large and that anywhere the observer is, is the center. That the black hole in the center of the galaxy is the infinite future as we undergo compression from dark matter. Regardless of how fast you travel toward the center of the galaxy you can never get there.
When you begin to think in infinite terms, a panacea of possibilities emerges. Infinite intelligence is aware of you and since autonomy is paramount they can only watch. Parents must allow the child to ultimately stand on its own lest it never know true freedom and you only pray the child does well.